This is Day 16 in the series “31 Days: What You Should Know Before An Affair“ Day 16 I can still see the deli where we met that day. Running late, I raced down the stairs and headed for the sidewalk. The time for the conversation had come. The turmoil was taking its toll on […]

This is Day 14 in the series “31 Days: What You Should Know Before An Affair“ Day 14 When the affair turned physical I became consumed.  I spent a full year investing in the emotional relationship—feeding my thoughts, engaging the attraction, coddling the conversation, and sending signals of interest—all of which were returned. It was […]

This is Day 12 in the series “31 Days: What You Should Know Before An Affair“ Day 12 She met me at the front of the huge sanctuary after the closing worship song. We talked in a friendly exchange as I would with anyone who needed to talk to someone after a service, and waited […]

This is Day 10 in the series “31 Days: What You Should Know Before An Affair“ Day 10 I’m not sure what planet I was living on, but it never occurred to me I could love more than one person at the same time. I knew there were times in my dating experience where feelings […]

This is Day 9 in the series “31 Days: What You Should Know Before An Affair“ Day 9 The weather was glorious the day we got lost—the trees tall, the sky blue, the temperature just perfect. Dreary weather is not a prerequisite for a mistake. We mapped it out before we left—the way we would […]

This is Day 7 in the series “31 Days: What You Should Know Before An Affair“ Day 7 I’ll never forget the butterflies of anticipation the night before my first wedding. Two of my college girlfriends spent the night with me at my parent’s house, and it was the best send-off a girl could ask […]