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What Community Can Look Like, (in)RL

by Jacque Watkins

Every human heart longs for connection…

to be heard and understood,

to feel wanted and valued,

to learn from another and give in return,

And I know it’s true for me.

And while that longing can be met amidst intermittent interactions and online connections, there’s nothing like lingering in real life…

Nothing like taking the time to pause and sit face to face,

Nothing like sharing and laughing and learning together,

Because it gives life to our bones, and refreshment to our spirits.

Community can sometimes be hurtful, but when done in the way God has designed, it can transform our weary hearts.

And thanks to (in)courage and their God-sized dream, we experienced community last weekend, in real life!

I hosted our own in-real-life meetup…a night of fun and connection face to face, potluck-style, with taco salad and iced tea on the patio. With chatting and laughing and lingering at sunset. We slowed down to be present and feel the breeze blow in–the breeze that blew all our candles out! But the most refreshing breeze fell on our souls as we shared in community and authentic friendship.

We ate angel food cake with strawberries and taught each other about Twitter and Instagram and hashtags. We heard the story of how (in)courage was born and we spoke of how a small dream can really become a big reality.

Thank you sweet friends for an amazing evening of friendship…

 …and enormous thanks to Lisa Jo, (in)courage,  and Dayspring, for their dream realized … in real life!

You can check out the photos, Instagram pictures and posts about all the other (in)RL meet-ups all around the world! And if you missed (in)RL, you can order the DVD set or get a t-shirt anytime too!

How have you experienced community lately?

How have you been changed as a result?

 

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Comments

  1. Ro elliott says

    May 3, 2012 at 6:31 am

    Oh this looks lovely…you did a great job here…go glad you stepped out and reached out. blessings to you~

  2. Jacque Watkins says

    May 3, 2012 at 8:06 am

    Thank you friend, have an amazing day!!

  3. Alia Joy says

    May 3, 2012 at 8:58 am

    Wow, your meetup is so pretty. I love all of the pictures! I can’t wait to meet you in real life. 🙂

  4. Jennifer Camp says

    May 3, 2012 at 9:53 am

    Yay! How beautiful and fun! We do need those real-life voices and faces in our life! Thanks, Jacque.

  5. heather.adams says

    May 3, 2012 at 11:54 am

    What fun! And I love all the beautiful colors in the pictures.

  6. thegypsymama says

    May 3, 2012 at 12:34 pm

    Oh my goodness, these photos are just gorgeous! I want to step right through them and hang out with all you lovely ladies in the sunset of a back yard garden party. love it! Thank you for being such a faithful supporter of (in)courage. We appreciate you so so much, Jacque!

    ~Lisa-Jo

  7. Jacque Watkins says

    May 3, 2012 at 1:04 pm

    Alia, thank you so much, and yes! to HUG you, that will be a delight 🙂

  8. Jacque Watkins says

    May 3, 2012 at 1:05 pm

    Yes, we do…real voices and real faces and real hugs…so glad you stopped by 🙂

  9. Jacque Watkins says

    May 3, 2012 at 1:05 pm

    Heather, thank you…I just love flowers soooo much!

  10. Jacque Watkins says

    May 3, 2012 at 1:12 pm

    Oh Lisa Jo, thank you for stopping in and visiting me here! Oh how I feel such passion for (in)courage and all you represent–how you are passionate about reaching out to the hearts of women, right where they are. It is such a need, one that you are meeting one woman at a time! What a privilege to be in online community with you. And if you are EVER in Southern CA we must have a backyard garden party!! How very fun would that be! Have an amazing day 🙂

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    January 14, 2013 at 1:11 am

    […] hosted a meet up last year and we had such an amazing time! I learned about Instagram for the first time and even created my […]

  2. Won't You Join Us for Community, In Real Life? - Jacque Watkins says:
    April 15, 2013 at 12:10 am

    […] wonderful agenda in store. And I’m hosting one of them again right here in my home. We had such a fun time last year and I can’t wait to connect with everyone this year […]

  3. When You Dare to BE in Community :: (in)RL 2014 - Jacque Watkins says:
    April 28, 2014 at 12:21 am

    […] loved hosting (in)RL last year, and the year before that! And this year’s (in)RL conference did not […]

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